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18/02/2008

The answer for Joyce Wu

2月17日

这个点名游戏来自我的好朋友
 http://miyamijiang.spaces.live.com

 

1.对你爱的人,你最希望给他/她什么?

希望

2.用3个(或3个以上)的词语形容自己目前的生活状态?

简单,规律,充实

3.你怎么知道自己喜欢一个人?

喜欢一个人,自己会不知道嘛?

4.你有信念吗?是什么?

有.....我今年要PASS CFA

5.对于这样类似的游戏,你都会如实地回答么?还是有所保留?

如实

6.你最希望从朋友(不包括爱人)那里得到的是什么?

信任

7.你最想去哪个地方?为什么?

非洲

8.最近最快乐的事情是什么?

很多事情都很快乐。

9.说说自己的坏毛病?

固执

10.说出点你名的人的3个优点(不可删除题)

冰雪聪明、善解人意、美丽动人。

11.对另一半的要求是什么?

女,智商高一点。不近视。

12.什么事最让你刻骨铭心?

大学的欢乐时光

13.婚姻生活幸福不?如果还米结婚的xdJMS,期待婚姻生活吗?

不期待。

14.你现在最想拥有的是什么?

健康、金钱、美女

15.对自己的收入水平满意吗?

不满意,钱太少了

16.如果给你一个月的假期,你最想做的事情?

去非洲转一圈

17.能描述一下30岁的你么?

努力工作,争取财务自由

18.你佩服的人是谁?或者有哪些素质?

无。

19.2008年,最想要实现的愿望是什么?

CFA AND GMAT

20.对你爱的人,你最不希望给他/她什么?

痛苦

wish everyone an fabulous 2008~

12/02/2008

关于嫁个有钱人

Every woman should read.

Re: A posting on Craigslist. A pretty woman post a note on craigslist asking how to find a rich husband.

What am I doing wrong? (Read till the end for the answer)
Okay, I’m tired of beating around the bush. I’m a beautiful (spectacularly beautiful) 25 year old girl. I’m articulate and classy. I’m not from New York . I’m looking to get married to a guy who makes at least half a million a year. I know how that sounds, but keep in mind that a million a year is middle class in New York City, so I don’t think I’m overreaching at all.
Are there any guys who make 500K or more on this board? Any wives? Could you send me some tips? I dated a business man who makes average around 200 - 250. But that’s where I seem to hit a roadblock. 250,000 won’t get me to central park west. I know a woman in my yoga class who was married to an investment banker and lives in Tribeca, and she’s not as pretty as I am, nor is she a great genius. So what is she doing right? How do I get to her level?
Here are my questions specifically:
- Where do you single rich men hang out? Give me specifics- bars, restaurants, gyms
- What are you looking for in a mate? Be honest guys, you won’t hurt my feelings
- Is there an age range I should be targeting (I’m 25)?
- Why are some of the women living lavish lifestyles on the upper east side so plain? I’ve seen really ‘plain jane’ boring types who have nothing to offer married to incredibly wealthy guys. I’ve seen drop dead gorgeous girls in singles bars in the east village. What’s the story there?- Jobs I should look out for? Everyone knows - lawyer, investment banker, doctor. How much do those guys really make? And where do they hang out? Where do the hedge fund guys hang out?- How you decide marriage vs. just a girlfriend? I am looking for MARRIAGE ONLYPlease hold your insults - I’m putting myself out there in an honest way. Most beautiful women are superficial; at least I’m being up front about it. I wouldn’t be searching for these kind of guys if I wasn’t able to match them - in looks, culture, sophistication, and keeping a nice home and hearth.
it’s NOT ok to contact this poster with services or other commercial interests
Craig’s List PostingID:
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THE ANSWER
Dear Pers-:
I read your posting with great interest and have thought meaningfully about your dilemma. I offer the following analysis of your predicament.
Firstly, I’m not wasting your time, I qualify as a guy who fits your bill; that is I make more than $500K per year. That said here’s how I see it.
Your offer, from the prospective of a guy like me, is plain and simple a crappy business deal. Here’s why. Cutting through all the B.S., what you suggest is a simple trade: you bring your looks to the party and I bring my money. Fine, simple. But here’s the rub, your looks will fade and my money will likely continue into perpetuity…in fact, it is very likely that my income increases but it is an absolute certainty that you won’t be getting any more beautiful!
So, in economic terms you are a depreciating asset and I am an earning asset . Not only are you a depreciating asset, your depreciation accelerates! Let me explain, you’re 25 now and will likely stay pretty hot for the next 5 years, but less so each year. Then the fade begins in earnest. By 35 stick a fork in you!
So in Wall Street terms, we would call you a trading position, not a buy and hold…hence the rub…marriage. It doesn’t make good business sense to “buy you” (which is what you’re asking) so I’d rather lease. In case you think I’m being cruel, I would say the following. If my money were to go away, so would you, so when your beauty fades I need an out. It’s as simple as that. So a deal that makes sense is dating, not marriage.
Separately, I was taught early in my career about efficient markets. So, I wonder why a girl as “articulate, classy and spectacularly beautiful ” as you has been unable to find your sugar daddy. I find it hard to believe that if you are as gorgeous as you say you are that the $500K hasn’t found you, if not only for a tryout.By the way, you could always find a way to make your own money and then we wouldn’t need to have this difficult conversation. With all that said, I must say you’re going about it the right way. Classic “pump and dump.” I hope this is helpful, and if you want to enter into some sort of lease, let me know.
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Rob Campbell
J.P.Morgan
Diversified Industrials Investment Banking
277 Park Avenue , 16/F, New York, NY 10172

About Rob Campbell

http://nymag.com/daily/intel/2007/10/rob_campbell_accidental_sexist.html